‘We Bought a Home Rather Than Splurge on a Wedding’

‘We Bought a Home Rather Than Splurge on a Wedding’

When Scott Wickberg proposed to Amy in 2015, they knew they wanted a memorable wedding—but they also knew that they wanted to buy a house. Faced with the high prices of homes and wedding venues in Denver, where they lived, the couple decided to get creative and kill two birds with one stone. How? By buying a home where they’d also host their own wedding.

“At some point Scott or I said that we should just buy a house with a big backyard and get married there,” says Amy. “The more we thought about it, the more it made sense.”

Wedding or a home: Why choose?

The Wickbergs are hardly alone: Backyard weddings are all the rage right now, increasing across the country. While many walk down the aisle in their parents’ or other family member’s backyard, some, like the Wickbergs, prefer to host the event in a home they’ve recently purchased, rolling a housewarming party and wedding into one.

The driving force behind this choice is financial: Scott, a web designer, and Amy, an opera singer, weren’t swimming in cash. According to TheKnot.com, the average wedding costs $31,213, about half of which goes to renting the reception venue. Meanwhile, the recommended 20% down payment on a median $240,900 house amounts to a whopping $48,180. So, unless you have a mountain of money lying around, it makes sense to pool these expenses into one place.

“We’re definitely seeing an increase in couples trying to make the most from their limited wedding budgets,” says Ariel Meadow Stallings, the publisher behind the wedding website Offbeat Bride. “Venue rentals can be a huge part of a wedding budget, so by bundling that cost into a real estate purchase, couples can turn a wedding expense into a longer-term real estate investment.”

Not only was buying the home a good investment, it also meant that the Wickberg wedding gave their guests a taste of their everyday life. On the day of the wedding, Amy and her bridesmaids got ready right next door thanks to a friendly neighbor. And when the festivities wound down at 10 p.m. in consideration of the families living nearby, the happy couple and their guests walked to a brewery just a few blocks away to continue their celebration.

The experience proved to be a rewarding one—not just in a financial sense but on an emotional level, too.

“Even if we had all the money in the world, we wouldn’t have done our wedding any other way,” says Amy. “We loved having our wedding at home. It felt like us.”

Jazz at the Park


Apr. 21
7:30 pm – 9:30 pm


Trout Museum of Art


The Trout Museum of Art
111 W. College Avenue, Appleton, WI 54911 United States



Jazz at The Trout, Season VI: The Evolution of Jazz
Concert 6: Dave Bayles (Conventional Piano Jazz Trio)

Journey through The Evolution of Jazz with Season VI of Jazz at The Trout. From ragtime and blues to contemporary and beyond, this season presents a progression of sounds comprising jazz music from the past 100 years to today.

$12 for members, $20 for non-members


Celebrate Spring in Downtown Appleton with in-store specials &extended business hours at 16 Downtown businesses on Fri & Sat, March 11 & 12, 2016!

  • ACOCA Coffee 500 W College Avenue 50 cents off any iced coffee beverage! Free samples of select food items!
  • Crazy Sweet 201 W College Avenue $5 off your $25 purchase! Free chocolate samples & a gift bag!
  • Fat Girlz Bakin 107 S Appleton Street Buy 3 cupcakes, receive the 4th one free!
  • Items of Interest 10 E College Avenue, Suite 102 – City Center In-Store Specials & FREE Gift with your $25 Purchase! Enter drawing for a Spring gift basket!
  • Boardlandia 10 E College Avenue, Suite 103 – City Center $5 off your $25 purchase! DePawistory 103 E College Avenue $5 off every $25 spent – up to $50 off & a Spring Snack for your pooch!
  • Lillians 115 E College Avenue $5 off $25 your purchase, $10 off $50 & $25 off $100 or more! Plus… $25 Gift Card Giveaway!
  • The Vintage Garden 119 E College Avenue $5 off every $25 spent – up to $50 off & FREE gift with your purchase! Sweet Treats, Door Prizes & Inspiring Home Décor!
  • hey, daisy! 121 E College Avenue In-Store Specials & FREE gift with your purchase! eco candle company 123 E College Avenue Spring Cleaning Sale! 25-50% off select candle scents!
  • Just Act Natural 129 E College Avenue 15% off your entire purchase! Homemade treats & chance to win a basket of JAN goodies!
  • Cedar Harbor 611 N Morrison Street $5 off every $25 spent – up to $50 off & FREE gift with purchase! Treats & Extended Hours!
  • tina marie’s unique boutique & Sonnet’s Garden Blooms 206 E College Avenue $5 off every $25 spent – up to $50 off, FREE gift with $25 purchase & treats!
  • Beatnik Betty’s Resale Butik 214 E College Avenue 15% off Storewide + Spend $50 get $10 for next time! Treats & Coffee!
  • Surfin’ Bird Skateshop 222 E College Avenue 20% off Storewide!
  • Blue Moon Emporium 227 E College Avenue $5 off your purchase of $25 or more! Raffle for 2 – $20 gift cards!

Businesses listed from West College Ave to East.
* All stores open until at least 7pm on Friday!
* Please see stores for additional promotion details!